She needs HELP!

I was watching a movie.My dad told me to change it to a game at 7:00 around the middle of the movie my mom stood behind me and started watching it too.around 22 mins in i realized i was making my dad lose his game.

I heard my mom walk away and i quickly changed it to the game.

she said "why didn't you ask me if you could change it?"

I said it was only for a minute and that he wanted to see the score.She began to yell that i always changed the tv when she was watching it.My dad defended me and said that we already had an arrangement.Later i went upstairs and she got me in my room.

she said "i don't know who you think you are but you keep doing this!" then we got in to a argument over what happend and i defended my case and as i listened to her,her account of events were EXTREMELY faulty.I KNOW i'm right I'm not only willing to bet my life on it but my best friends.She distorts stories.She began to threaten me.

She said " I know this is because i am black! i see the way you are with your sister and dad!"

i screamed "HOW IS THIS A RACIAL THING?"

she said "don't mess with me! if you have a problem with me fine! but i can lose control when i lose my temper!"

so now i'm afraid i feel like i have to be on edge when she watches anything i am watching....i don't think i want to watch tv downstairs.period.What do i do? she thinks i am against her and reasoning with her is absolutely impossible.She won't do anything with my dad around.I wish they would get divorced.

Comments

Log in to Comment

Total-Havok 2007-09-19 03:25:44

Did ya.... Did ya touch her?

Sawke 2007-09-19 03:25:44

no but i did ban you.

Officer 2007-09-19 03:59:08

Did you ban me?

Sawke 2007-09-19 03:59:08

if i did you wouldnt be posting anything.

pHuXxXB0xX 2007-09-19 15:02:25

ITS COS YOU'RE BLACK!

oh shi-

Alcohol1 2007-09-19 15:06:57

jesus is watching you masturbate, too.

Kidiri 2007-09-19 16:10:07

Racist! And no, a divorce isn't the answer. The children are always fucked if parents get divorced. And I have learned that the best way to avoid trouble with your family is to avoid your family.

Crue 2007-09-19 22:40:33

Sounds fucked up. My advice would be not to mention it. Just drop this one. If she brings it up again explain that its not always a racial thing, and there are other things behind arguments and whatnot besides skin color. Even though you aren't at fault an apology wouldn't hurt. Also, you don't really want them to divorce, kid. Not unless they're always fighting like my parents. They still haven't actually divorced though. Ever watch Rescue Me? You know how Tommy is living in the firehouse now? Yeah, that's pretty much my old man. He spends a couple nights down in the basement here, but other than that I barely see him.

Sawke 2007-09-19 22:40:33

my family KNOWS they shouldn't be together.They aren't arguing they are just really unhappy.but the first reason everyone says why they shouldn't break up is "financial reasons" and no one but me sees that there's something wrong with the fact that the only reason is money.

Crue 2007-09-20 21:21:56

Yeah, there is something wrong with that. And I know and passionately hate the unhappiness you mentioned. You've only got a couple years left under them, then you can do whatever the hell you want. Just try to hold out until then, like I am. I'm done counting in years too. I'm now counting months. There's definite satisfaction there. Just don't let it aid in, or completely fuck ip your vision of life. Sitting through my folk's bull shit wasn't good for me. I don't want to get married, I don't want kids, and I don't want to live past 30. This isn't how you're supposed to feel about life. Talk to somebody. Anybody who gets it. It's what I didn't do, and I think if I had, my outlook would be better.

Sawke 2007-09-20 21:21:56

I'm happy with how i was raised....I'm not in to drugs and i feel guilt.So i must be normal.It's just..my dad is doing a better job.She leaves a lot.He's the one who watches me...keeps me entrtained...feeds me when she leaves.If they separate she'd leave me with him and not bother trying to fight.She really wants to leave and go back to her country and continue her projects.She said once that i "was in the way" and that it was "time for herself" my dad was appalled.

I still want a family.I want to do the things my parents did right...and not make their mistakes.You can't say you don't EVER want a family.Maybe not now...but soon.Everyone gets lonely they fall in love or make a mistake.Who's to say what will happen? but you don't want to concentrate on only a carreer.One day you'll wake up in your big expensive home and realize you're over 30 and alone.

Crue 2007-09-21 17:09:55

Good to be happy with the way your parents raised you. Means something's been done right. I used to smoke, I still drink, and I smoke weed every now and then. I think our situation was the cause. There was no custody issue with my folks either.

I'm glad to hear you (seemingly) get along well with your father. That's another plus. I don't get along too well with either of my parents. Hope those two can work things out and return to peaceful lives. To stay like this or divorce may change your thoughts entirely.

You've heard my motto right? "Love is a false emotion created by the weak." At least for myself, I've kept that as truth. But I'm sure you can find the right guy. You'll probably have a great family. As for me though, even if I wanted to, I think I'm just too bitter for it to work. Besides, I don't want do die old ,and helpless. It seems too depressing and even degrading. But like I said, you are different. You've got a different opinion created by a different situation, and hopefully it will stay as is. You're right though. Nobody knows what will happen.

Sawke 2007-09-21 17:09:55

You're surrounded by the world you create.If you give off the attitude that you are alone, and won't find anyone. People won't want to get close to you. If you let the effects your parents did to you shine through then they win. Do you want their attention? do you want to pull themselves out of their world and see what they are doing to you? it's not going to happen humans get more and more selfish as life goes on.

I HOPE my dad isn't using me.he sounds regretful.He said he left my sister to soak alone in her misery when she was a teen and didn't try to connect with her. I guess that's the good thing about being the third kid. It's like getting another chance for a parent to learn from their mistakes. I just hate it when my parents include me in their argument....

KemCab 2007-09-22 15:33:56

Wait, you're BLACK?

WilliWowza 2007-09-22 15:40:26

TOO FAR SAWKE, CHANGING THE CHANNEL IS JUST TOO FAR!

Reaperyami 2007-09-22 16:02:46

You know, there are things called hired assassins...

KemCab 2007-09-22 19:55:34

Wait, so you are black.

<a href="http://www.newgrounds.com/bbs/search/author/Sawke/16">http://www.newgrounds.com/bbs/search/
author/Sawke/16</a>

lol imma st0x0r

pyrouk 2007-09-25 15:06:46

my parents were like that and they got divorced my lil bro used 2 cry every night but now hes happy living with our dad divorce was the right thing 4 my my parents maybe it is 4 urs

jfella91 2007-09-25 18:21:41

It takes 2 people to argue... even if your mom is arguing or yelling at you, if you reply calmly or calmly tell her to go away several times, as long as you keep calm you will save yourself a lot of stress.

Lorkas 2007-09-26 12:49:14

Grab his (ur dadz) cok

She needs HELP!

Comments

Log in to Comment

Main Sections

Extra, Extra!

Community

NG Related