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Need some guy advice

Posted by Sawke - April 15th, 2008

where better to ask about guys then the smelly hot pit where they all gather known only as Newgrounds! ^^ ok i need some help. I was sitting with this guy in class and he started commenting on my boobs and making pervy jokes.

It didn't bother me though because that type of stuff is ok by me so i just laughed along. Then afterclass he lightly joked "wanna go out after school? maybe for eight hours" i laughed punched him on the arm, and we walked away.

He was laughing so don't think i was being mean and ignored him asking me out because i don't think he was serious. Anyway here's my issue. I'm leaving class and i poke him as i walk by him and say "hello" he hugs me (i try to run) and says "HEY! my favorite artist" i looked up at him smiled softly and said "thank you" are you guys gagging yet? anyway the part that confuses me is that not one second after i said "thank you" i saw him lightly smile, he leans down and gives me a kiss on the cheek then without a word walks away.

What does that mean? he likes me? he was being friendly? i don't know if i like him...but i won't get in to that...i have a lot of reasons. I'm just confused about what he meant by that kiss. because it wasn't a light fast kiss. It was full lips on cheek SMACK and no prior warning saying he was leaving. Should i maybe get closer to him? see what else he does?

I wouldn't make you read all that CRAP without a little extra goodness. Here's a pic i drew.

Need some guy advice

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ngfan14

He probably likes you and doesn't know how to show it.

Sawke

:/ a random kiss on the cheek sucks. In fact i got so confused trying to think about what it meant! HOW DARE HE MAKE ME THINK! anyway this guy has girls falling out his ass. They litterally are all over him. Why me? and besides....he doesn't have a better technique then confuse the hell out of me? UGH MEN! and you say we're confusing!

Skybolt-DX

He's probably just using you for hot sexxor.

You said the other girls are all over him?

Yeah, he's using you, just like he's using his other 14 girls.

Find someone else.

Sawke

ya i figured...i just figured because im probably so different from them...i dunno...he might really like me. I'll try to wear baggy clothes constantly and see if he keeps it up. Some guys in my school only hit on me when im wearing a tight shirt.

Skybolt-DX

Just keep deluding yourself.

He doesn't care about you...

Sawke

I didn't say he did...but even scum bag cheaters have to be given the benifit of the doubt SOMETIME. I'm just saying...i'm not like the other girls...i've so far seen him with. I'm not petit, i'm not like...really thin and perfect, and i'm most certainly not going to slut all over him. I like videogames, and drawings, and things no one else likes. So why would a guy whos in to sex go after a virgin like me? he knows i'm a virgin by the way...which is really weird.

ShortStackSutin

Aw shit. Being 16 fucking sucks...
Personally I'd say just be on the slight defensive. He may just be flirting, but just because he has girls falling out the ass doesn't mean that he isn't more attracted to you than them. You never know, really.
Basically you're 16, so if something happens, it does, if not, it doesn't. Rarely is it serious, so don't take it seriously.
Peace,
a former 16 year old girl.

ngfan14

You are confusing. If he has other girls all over him you should probably go out with him. Don't listen to Skybolt-DX. That's something he would do.

amador10

I'm not an expert on the subject really, but whenever there's kissing involved there's usually affection associated with it. Maybe it's a sign that he likes you?

dogstile

he's being forward, so he might like you, the clothes idea is a good bet for now

Sawke

unfortunately this asshole doesn't come to school often...so i have to keep wearing tight clothes until he does! UGH i hate wearing tight clothes a lot.

NeonFlame126

He likes you. Aw-oh wait, so do lotz of people on here. Crap. There goes that theory. Anyway, he likes you, tell him to bend over and suck it. It'll drive him away for sure.

Sawke

He may or may not like me, time will tell ^^ this ass doesn't show up for school so it may take a bit.

dogstile

hmm, fair point about the tight clothes, i put on a pair of jeans that were really tight, and i hated it, never really thought about girls not liking it...weird

ah well, hope whatever your plannign goes well!

(again, nice drawing)

Sawke

Lol thx. No most girls do like tight clothes. I just happen to be one of the weird ones that enjoys baggy tshirts.

Sticky

He made you laugh. Jokes are flirting. By asking you out in a joke he was able to avoid an uncomfortable situation had you said no.

From the sound of it you approached him (You poked him?) and having not specifically said no before hand he could have the wrong idea. As for the kiss you did look directly at him and said thank you while he was hugging you.

I think you have led him on without realising.

Sawke (Updated )

Well he didnt really ASK me trust me it was a full on joke i don't believe he was serious. You had to be there to see it, and the way he asked me was not serious it was full on sarcasm.

I just poked him in the stomach and said hi. He hugged me and i tried to move away while he was doing that i just laughed with him. Hugging is very common here so it's hard to know what is and isn't friendly here. Ya and for the pre kiss thing. Who moves away and says thank you? he had a arm around me i looked at him and said thanks where was i supposed to look at the floor?

I probably did lead him on, but that's not my fault i did nothing out of the ordinary. I didn't hug him i didn't even move close to him i just said "hi" and last i checked a poke isn't a sign of love.

Emi

Sky is probably right, but it's too early to jump to any conclusions yet.

When you go back to school on Monday, see what he does when he spots you. If he goes in for another kiss, he probably likes you; if he just casually says "Hey", he is just being friendly; if he doesn't do anything when he spots you, then you know for sure it's nothing.

Sawke

well we have a whole week off so it won't be for a long while. It's ok i'll see what he does and try to find some things out. If he says he likes me i have to find out if he's with his girlfriend still. I don't do sloppy seconds.

dogstile

yeah, everyone at school pokes eachother, heck, we even give eachother hugs (us guys too!) but its not considered flirting, just being good friends, that could possibly be it, with dgs, he's also right, if he kiss's you again, he likes you

:)

Sawke

Ya i know it's not the hug that i was thinking about it was the kiss and LOOK he gave me.

dogstile

you never mentioned the look

i think he probably likes you

Sawke

oh right i didn't lol sorry. Oh well i'll know when i know.

Crue

He likes you. He just doesn't know what the fuck he's doing.

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