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I've never been in a relationship

Posted by Sawke - February 8th, 2008


But from what i see...it's a bit overrated. I mean there's a nice time of love and comfort...but people so often get sick of eachother. It's a bit sad. The funny thing about love is that you want so bad to be with another person...then when you have your time of love....you realize that person is fucking annoying...then comes the heartbreak...oh well. I'm just speculating based on what i've seen people do in their relationships.

Nothing is sadder than people in a relationship who don't want to admit it's over. They look at other people and feel attraction to others ALL the time...like it's no big deal. They can't admit it's over...they just drag out the relationship so much longer than it should be.

I probably won't know what their reasoning for doing crazy things in a relationship is till i'm actually able to go through it myself. I just hope i'm a bit more sensible. i probably won't be. Love makes us all unwilling idiots. You can't love someone without taking the risk of looking like a damn fool. Whether or not you have been changed for better or worse. Someones bound to stare.

Life isn't long enough for love and art.
W. Somerset Maugham

how long this took me? two friggin hours.

I've never been in a relationship


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I know what you mean... ppl say things like if you have a gf (or bf) then you'll be cooler but you know what, its not true....even though ive never had a gf...whatever...thats all im sayin...

Ya i see what you are saying. They go in to shock when you say you aren't (or never have been) with someone. I always get so embarrassed and angry because they are such assholes about it.

You already know how I feel about it. Or how I felt anyway. You gave me a bit better of a look at it, but I still doubt. Just remember not to mistake how I feel about you as "in love". I don't think I'm into that tune. Noone should have to be like that image, bound to someone forever. It simply won't work. Relationships are extremely time and energy consuming. You can't chain down a free spirit.

well that's a sad way to look at things. Love isn't supposed to be BINDING, it's supposed to be about not being able to imagine life without that person.

Kinda like finding a new food topping XD once i had jelly on my creamcheese, i never wanted just plain creamcheese again. Creamcheese seemed dul and tastless. That's kinda like love! life before the person you loved seemed so empty compared to what you have when you gain love. The important thing is not getting too attached to the jelly ^^ it will soon run out. Then you gotta either get a new jar of the same brand, try new jelly, or just go back to plain creamcheese XD I'm HUNGRY!

Married couples don't feel the way they do as when they first met, but that doesn't mean they are falling out of love. They are just realizing that the other isnt PERFECT, and soon they learn how to live with eachothers faults.That's real love. Lol i see it first hand with my parents.

Love sometimes is hidden. Yes our familes piss us all off but love is still there and will be there forever. Love IS binding in the sense that we can never truly let the affection for that person go. The important thing is to remind yourself why you love that person, and what you would do for them.

yeah I said "I'll never get any" they just laughed.
jerks.

Once again your wisdom and words make me feel better about things. This is what I love about you. Yet I still don't think I can, or at least I'm not ready to, fall in love.

lol falling in love as a teen isn't uncommon. But that doesn't mean it's right. It's like 1 in 50 chance that you find the right person at a young age that you will stay with forever, and if you do, then either you aren't that complicated of a person, or your standards can be easily matched.

Chances are my luck will be the same as my dads. He got his first date at age 20 XD which wasn't considered strange back in his day. I don't know if it was because no one liked him or if he was just picky like me, none the less i'm sure he enjoyed himself more than the people who just date, to date.

I tip my hat to you. Not a lot of people are able to actually look at people and relationships the way you do. Its a good thing, and it makes you wiser much faster.
Me? My last relationship was in the 2nd grade. I've liked many a women, not venturing cause...frankly, the way I look is an excuse enough.

you shouldn't put yourself down. Looks have nothing to do with finding the right person or even just dating. It's always about charm. Ever notice how popular people are usually not all THAT gorgeous, or there's one fat person or ugo in a group of popular pretty people? that person got there with charm.

A little charm takes you a long way, it's a gift rather than a art. You'll find someone. Unless you have some kind of weird social issues,It maybe harder but you will definately find someone.

it is not bad, nothing special but its ok

lololololololo your a loser :)

says the loser who wastes their time telling me that online.

Love is best to avoid, if at all possible.

awww :( who froze your heart?

Hmm. We don't take relationships that serious here in Lithuania (east eu). Don't know why. My cousin started dating at her late 18.

Also lol, you put your own photo as a profile pic.

uhm shocking? to both things?

So, I should have said I have weird social issues. Could've saved you some typing energy. It doesn't matter how icky you look on the outside, but how rotten you are on the inside. I'm in a long, processing transitional period, so maybe I might turn out better. Taking a good look at myself has never taken so much time.

as long as you are trying to work on your faults that much is good.

I see you had your birthday recentley. HAPPEH BIRFDAY

RECENTLY? it was in DECEMBER

I don't really get what your saying.

But i'll try to follow...

Anyways, I hate those kind of people who get in a relationship cause they thik it's cool.

I get into a relationship if i happen to be/become good friends with a girl.

But i know about 20 people who do it cause they thinks it's "cool".

lmao that's what i was saying. How people get in to relationships that a totally worthless and pointless, and can't find happiness within that relationship.

Unfortunately love can make you a blind, blithering idiot. If you get passed that phase and find you don't really care for the person you're with and won't do shit about it then you're just plain lazy. W. Somerset Maugham was a smart motherfucker because his statement about love and art is rings true. There is never enough time to get extremely talented at love or art because you can always become better with more time. But there is never enough time for us.
I like your drawing. It looks like he's trapped in a hive of some sorts.

lol thx! you touched upon everything i said nice.

don't worry about not being in a relationship i've been in loads (hockey would make me attractive as it seems) and they are just a waste of time at teen years till around 18+ when they start lasting a little longer but i live in the u.k so your mileage may vary

Lol hockeys attractive? i think here people consider basketball or american football attractive. It's not so much i'm worried. Just annoyed at the nonsense people go through in relationships.

make me a pizza and some fries. plz

make me a burger and a shake plz

Number one problem of relationship: once your with someone, it hard to break up.

lol the logic in that is astounding.

So deep is it of that your nature.
also,
<peanut butter>

thx yoda.

Awe thats sad...dont worry none of my relationships last more than 3 weeks before the girl ditches me for someone else...Nice art though...

lol well at least you had a relationship!